Thoughts on the random: Pandora, office snacks, the non-cuddler, and No-Debo.

I know it's been a while since my last post. My work-life balance is laughable right now. Nevertheless, I will talk about the above topics in that order, and i may add things to the list as i see fit.

Pandora stations: L-dub's current obsession

About two weeks ago I was bored at work and I needed something to make the day more interesting, or at least make it go by quicker. I finally checked out something called Pandora Radio Stations...it's an internet radio station that you customize by entering what artists or songs you like. So far, I've created a a neo soul station, an oldies station, a new york hip hop station, a southern rap/crunk station, a straight R&B station, and of course a West Coast rap station (four fingaz up, two twisted in da middle :-) . I don't know what else to say, but Pandora.com is the truth!

The office snack guy.

so i don't know about y'all, but in my office (in fact in most offices i've been in) there's that guy who always has snacks at his desk that he often shares with the rest of the office. it's cool, but also kinda funny to me. it reminds me of that kid in middle school who always brought big bags candy and stuff with him to sell on the playground during recess or whenever.


revisiting the non-cuddler.

so some of you may remember when i was talking about men who don't like to cuddle. now i don't know how much this rings true, but a guy friend of mine believes that depending on the type of relationship you have--cuddling is either part of the arrangement or not. ie, if they're just a random fling, then it may not be expected that you're gonna like...lay in bed and cuddle cuz it's like that (and that's the way it is, boo).

i just don't think some guys get it though. most women wanna cuddle. point blank period. it's arguably---the best part of whatever you were doing leading up to it. i think if some men did it more, then perhaps more fun activities would ensue--that's all i'm saying. however, if it's a random fling---perhaps the guy doesn't care about that, right? this isn't the case in every scenario of course, but it could be the case at least in a few instances. but what do i know? i sleep alone.

No-Debo on the Metro.

my newest pet peeve HAS to be people who try to "Debo" their way into an already crowded train cuz they're too damn pressed to wait for the next train during rush hour. this has got to be one of the dumbest things ever, mostly because during the morning hours the trains are about 5 minutes apart if not less than that. so why push your way in? they're even more annoying than those idiots who stand on the left side of the elevator when they KNOW they're supposed to stand right and pass left.

maybe next time that happens i'll push them outside of the doors before the chime sounds.


or not.