don't date him girl!

i'm sure some of you have heard of this site:

www.dontdatehimgirl.com

the listing of men who are assholes and that women warn that you shouldn't date.

well now there's a spinoff:

www.sorryassbabydaddies.com

i don't know what to say but this just makes my heart hurt. and probably my head hurt too.

as for the former--i can't say there are many men i feel that way about. you know enough to say to other women not to date him. but i don't know how i feel about that concept. i mean just because it didn't work out with me--that doesn't mean that he'll treat her bad too, does it? i just think women let these men get away with stuff and if a woman doesn't take any ish, then she'll save herself from bein in a world of hurt, you know?

i used to date someone who consistently lied to me. he is now dating someone else who i know. do you think i'm callin her, facebookin her, IM'in her on some "don't date him girl!" of course not. who has time for that? and i could be sabotaging something that is good for the both of them.

i mean the other site...i still don't know what to say. i guess i'm at a loss for words.